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 Posted: Tue Mar 17, 2009 3:55 am Post subject: Facing the truth |
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Facing the truth about ones problems in the family is a big step to growth, for me it would be the following:
1. lack of empathy (Sometimes) or depending on who it was, or offense.
2. Defining a thicker line of tolerance to people before getting upset.
3. Being more positive
4. Not allowing things to build up inside- finding a constructive outlet.
5. Not accepting others mistakes as my fault.
I f you eally think about where you go wrong you can find understanding for others easier than if you don't. Dysfunctional tapes are the very reason why families suffer and fall apart. There's a strong layer of anger, and resentment in the home when the family doesn't take the steps neded to create a healthy family. Children suffer more than the parents, and they blame themselves for the broken home.
I'm sure i have many more faults that i could list and God knows them all. Start off with things you feel comfortale with expressng, and then start on the sensitive ones. It doesn't matter where you do it or how as long as they are acknowledged and accounted for.
Make a daily plan to avoid doing the old garbage so the new hope can have a chance to blossom. Every home can use improvement, and everyone can stand to cange. No ones perfect and that's why choosing to be healthy is vital for you and your family.
Seek God for the hard stuff that hurts to face, he'll show you the way.
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